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Letter from Royia Dear Friends and Family: It is human nature to take the simple things in life for granted, like the way we look. Smooth skin, flawless facial features, and the confidence to smile are simple pleasures to me especially after April 19, 1995. For 27 years, I looked a certain way and then in a brief moment in time at 9:02 a.m., my life changed forever. The Oklahoma City bombing changed lives forever. For me personally, I was devastated, embarrassed, and felt conscious beyond words. I suffered extensive facial and throat damage, lost most of my teeth, and nearly lost my right eye. After an extended hospital stay, my husband left me and I found myself wallowing in self-pity with certainty I would be alone for the rest of my life. The large lacerations to my face were physically and emotionally painful not only to me, but also to my family and friends. Even though they tried to hide their pain I could see it in their eyes. So I learned how to hide. I learned how to detach myself and ignore the whispers and looks from others. What little self-esteem I had, seemed to be dwindling to nothing. After many months of treatment I was left with many scars as well as non-healing tissue covering the majority of my face. As doors are closed, new ones are opened. Through God's grace, I met Dr. Chernoff. He began treating my face immediately and now nine years later, I continue to benefit from the research and subsequent therapies offered to victims of violence through this service. With the patience of Job, Dr. Chernoff has dramatically reduced the physical scaring to my face. Through countless hours of labor-intensive procedures, he has seemingly worked miracles on my scars externally as well as internally. Emotionally, I am a new person. Even though I have a long road ahead, I now feel comfortable to go to the store without wearing makeup. I am gradually letting go of being a victim and moving on by educating others over the last 8 years to help lend clarity to troubled times and teach others before they become victims. Sincerely, Royia Grizzell Oklahoma City bombing victim